Friday Favorites: Battle of the Reds

I wear a lot of red lipstick.

Someone once said to me, “I could never wear red lipstick. It’s hard to match, and it’s so bold.”

To which I replied, “ANYONE can wear red lipstick!”

It’s true. I used to be terrified to wear red lipstick. I had no clue how to pick the right shade for my skin-tone let alone go out and buy the right color and formula without doing a ton of research ahead of time.

I am here to help you figure it out in three easy steps.

Step 1. Identify your skins undertone. There are three different categories of undertones:

Cool Tone.

Warm Tone.

Neutral…aka…those who are both.

There are also a few ways you can go about finding out what your undertones are:

  • The Vein Check. Look at the veins on your wrist – are they blue or green? Blue veins are typically cool undertones, whereas green veins are warm undertones. What if my veins look both blue and green? Then you’re likely a combination of cool and warm undertones. You can also have someone else look at your veins, since ya know, two sets of eyes are better than one.
  • The Paper Test. Hold up a piece of paper next to your skin. Do you look yellowish in comparison to the paper? This is an indicator of warm undertones. Do you look rosy, pink, bluish-red next to the paper? That is an indicator of cool undertones. If you look grayish next to the paper, you’re likely olive toned or neutral.
  • The Tan Test. Do you tan in the sun or do you burn? If you tan in the sun, you’re more likely to have warm or neutral undertones. Whereas, if you burn in the sun, you’re more likely to have cool undertones. That’s not to say that warm undertones can’t burn or cool undertone people can’t tan – keep in mind, this is just a general rule of thumb.

Step 2. Decide what you want from a red lipstick. What type of lipstick do you want, traditional creme lipstick or long-wear lipstick, or even a lip stain?


* Side note – Just because you have warm or cool or neutral undertones should not limit to you what color lipsticks you buy! The guides above are to help you venture into red lipsticks and will help you as you’re learning what to look for and pick for your preferences!

You should always buy and wear what makes YOU feel beautiful and fierce!

Now where would the fun be if I didn’t show off some reds in my own collection!?

These are the reds that I have tried over the years and are my top ten go-to shades and brands. I have neutral undertones, but I personally tend to favor more of the blue-toned reds versus the orange-toned reds.

Left: Brand Name Right: Color Name

#1. Rich Blood, Velvet Liquid Lipstick by Jeffree Star, $18.00

This is easily my favorite long-wear red lipstick. I bought it over the summer and have already replaced it because I ran out. The thing I love most about Jeffree’s products is the quality. I can put this red on in the morning and it will last me the majority of the day (depending on what I’m doing, eating, etc.) It holds up really well and has little to no transfer. Yes, the price for this lip is on the higher end of the spectrum, but when I do a lot of talking or I’m going to be in meetings all day – this is the one I reach for.

The liquid lips in his line are ultra-pigmented and don’t require a lot of product to make your lips pop. I also really enjoy the fact that he has a huge assortment of reds. This one is a blue-toned red with hints of micro glitter. It’s a matte lip, so it dries down completely and I love the added touch of the micro glitter to that combination.

The only downfall with this one is that when it goes out of stock, you could be waiting for a while before you get your hands on it again.

#2. Coeur D’Alene, Satin Lip Crayon by Fiona Stiles, $16.00

Be still my beating heart. This is a newer find, and currently one of my faves. It comes in at a slightly lower price than the Jeffree Star lips, but it is easier to get your hands on.

This is a traditional satin lip crayon that does not dry down matte. It has a beautiful finish that lasts surprisingly well. With most traditional satin/crème lips – there is transfer. But honestly, that is a price you’re going to pay with this formula. If you want something long wear, I highly recommend you go for a liquid lip, or a lip stain.

As far as the color – this is still a cool toned red – the blue tones just work best with my skin. There are a few classic reds that teeter between cool and warm and I have to be incredibly careful – if you get too warm of a red, it can end up looking more orangey-red when you put it on your lips. This is where knowing your skin tone and the under tones of your red will help you make a decision.

#3. Missy and Fierce, Megalast Liquid Catsuit by Wet N’ Wild, $8.17

Ah. A price point at half the price and all of the benefit. I had been hearing mumblings in the beauty world about this liquid lip saying that it would rival the most expensive, long-wearing products.

And you know what – they were right.

I finally found this at Walmart. There wasn’t a tester to swatch on my hand, so I had to eyeball the lip color in the bottle and hope for the best. I was pleasantly surprised at the quality and wearability of this lip. The color was SPOT on. It was a bright, classic red – and to be honest, I have found that those are sometimes harder to find, as the majority tend to lean towards a warm tone base.

But low and behold! I give this to you, my lovelies.

It has a great applicator, goes on seamlessly and feels amazing. One thing I was worried about was the drying effect. I have tried my hand at a few different drug-store liquid lips and ten minutes into wearing them I looked like I had been in the desert for two weeks.

This one is great. My lips felt good, they weren’t sticky and I was impressed all around. Securing it a top-three spot.

#4. Rock Steady, Vice lipstick by Urban Decay, $17.00

This is another crème lipstick that I love. It’s a classic blue-toned red. With any traditional creme lip, again, there’s transfer, but it holds up well. I will note with this one that if you touch it and don’t realize it, you will get it everywhere. I’ve had it on my hands, cheeks, notebooks – so you do have to be careful with this one.

But the color is a non-contest. It’s beautiful on and looks really similar to the Rich Blood color I hold near and dear.

#5. Unicorn Blood, Velvet Liquid Lipstick by Jeffree Star, $18.00

Another favorite, and also a non-traditional red. This is more of a brownish/wine red. I love this one specifically for the fall, or for a fierce look on a night out. I won’t go into too much detail on the formula – because we all know how I feel about this particular brand.

#6. Red Revival, ColorSensational by Maybelline, $7.49

I was really surprised with this one for a few reasons. A. The price is amazeballs and B. I would venture to say that this one could be used as a dupe for the Rock Steady lipstick I mentioned above by Urban Decay. It’s not an exact match, because this shade is a little bit lighter, but the formulas are comparable and I would easily pick this one up at the grocery store versus making a trip to the makeup store to grab the other.

Also, while this is technically a blue-toned red, I find that it leans more towards a warmer red.

#7. Cherry Skies, Liquid Suede by NYX, $6.99

This is another non-traditional red, and again is a pretty close match to another color on this list – Unicorn Blood. This one has more red than brown – but it’s still a close runner up. This is also a matte lip and dries down.

The ONLY thing about this one that I’m not a fan of is the actual drying of it. I find that this shade tends to dry my lips out quicker than some of the other colors in this line.

#8. Poised, Epic Ink lip dye by NYX, $6.99

If you want a lip stain – this is it. I put this on and had to use a combination of coconut oil and makeup remover to get it off – so if you’re going to commit to this one, make sure you commit to an all day red lip.

It wears beautifully, and survived eating macaroni and cheese from Panera Bread…so that’s a win in my book.

#9. Red Chili, Color is Bae by Elizabeth Mott $20.00

This one has a disclaimer. I received this one in a subscription bag as a sample size and haven’t bought a full size bottle for myself.

It is a lip lacquer, and I think that means its going through an identity crisis.

It’s not exactly a matte liquid lip, but it’s not exactly a full gloss either.

I do like the color of this one though. It’s a pin-up red and it’s one of my few warmer-toned reds. So I tend to wear this one more in the summer when I’m tanned, than in the winter when I’m pinky and pale.

Unfortunately, I haven’t decided if I’m willing to restock it once I run out. The price is one of the highest on this list for a full size, and I have commitment issues. But for now, it’s sitting pretty in my top ten favorites.

#10. Lady Balls, Melted Matte by TooFaced $21.00

This one. *sigh* I honestly have a love hate relationship with this one, but the color is so classic red that I just cannot bring myself to not wear it.

First I’ll go through the love aspects. The color is amazing and the formula is long-wearing and matte with little transfer after wear time.


It’s really pricey. This is the most expensive matte lip I have and there are other classic reds I own that are more affordable.

The second thing about this one is that I have found it requires a lot of prep work to wear. I have to do a lip scrub to make sure my lips are exfoliated because this one dries waaaay down. If you have even the slightest chapped patch on your lips, this lip will accentuate it big time.

There you have it lovelies! My current Top Ten Red Lipsticks! I am forever changing my lip colors and my brands so I would love to hear what colors and brands you’re wearing!

Now go out and wear that red lipstick and slay queens!

This post is not sponsored. The reviews and photos depicted here are based on personal, not professional, opinion only.


Friday Favorites #3

Hello Lovelies! Happy weekend eve!

The three things I’m about to share with you are my current addictions. I’ve been using and wearing them for weeks now and will continue to do so throughout the fall and winter.

Pashmina Blanket Scarf

Let me start by saying – I’m so glad that it is finally cold enough in North Carolina to pull of boots and scarves. Not that it was stopping me, I was sweating it out as soon as October first hit. I was pinning fall outfits, cider recipes and cute pumpkin carving ideas and kept coming across blanket scarves. I skipped buying one last year and knew this was the year I had to have it.

This scarf. Oh my.

First of all, its pashmina so it’s basically made with the softest things on the planet – clouds, teddy bears…Vince Gills voice. All balled into this beaut.


It’s so large that I’ve actually used it as a blanket. It’s my go to travel scarf because even though it’s big, it’s also light enough to throw on with a t-shirt and skinny jeans to pull a look together. Not to mention the fact that you can unfold it on the plane and cover up with it.


The price point was also decent. I’ve seen blanket scarves on Etsy go for upwards of $40, this one was on Amazon for $18, so I call that a win. There is a very similar one at Walmart that I looked at for $10 – they were cute, but the fabric was different and not quite as soft. Still, the price point tempted me and I’m going to go back tomorrow and pick up the black and white one.

I’m weak.

Too Faced Melted Lip – Chihuahua 

Okay, so I’ve gotta be up front, I’m not sold on the Too Faced line, yet. I’ve just not been overly impressed with some of their eye shadows or their formulas. But this lipstick is to die for.


I say lipstick, because although it’s technically a long wear lip, it doesn’t dry down completely, thus it transfers and isn’t super long wearing. It stays fairly glossy, which in the winter is great. Everything is so dry that full matte lips, for me, come with A LOT of work – exfoliating, moisturizing and priming.

img_9933I actually love that it doesn’t dry completely because it keeps a nice light gloss without looking like full wet lips, which I appreciate.

I even threw in a shameful selfie so you could see the color in action.

See what I mean?!

These are a bit pricey, at $21 each, but well worth it. I actually bought two different formulas of the Melted line, and this one is by far my favorite. The applicator is soft and you don’t have to take multiple swipes for application or even use a lot of product.


642 Things to Write About, by the San Francisco Writer’s Grotto

It’s coming into November, which is National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo), so I’ve been getting all of the blogs lined out for that – Yay!

Meanwhile, I have a novel that I’m trying desperately to finish. Anyone who’s ever needed to write ANYTHING can relate to writer’s block. It’s a cruel, cruel part of the job.

I actually received this as a Christmas present one year and I’ve been using it ever since to help break through bouts of writer’s block and it’s always within arm’s reach during NaNoWriMo.


It’s pretty self explanatory – there are 642 different writing prompts. They range from lists to letters to different scenarios.

What I love most is that they’re all incredibly simple to think through and I can usually hammer a few prompts out in a sitting. It’s a great thing to thumb through on a break.

Even if you aren’t writing a novel, suffering massive amounts of writer’s block, like I am, it’s a fun little book to play around with!

If you love these things let me know! If there is something you want me to try or think could be a Friday Favorite leave a comment down below!


Friday Favorites #2

Welcome back lovelies, I hope everyone has had a phenomenal week!

This week has been a busy one to say the least – and it’s been super rainy here in North Carolina – which I love! But it makes me want to nap…all the time…like a bear.

Still, I made photos happen, even with clouds and I am so excited to present this week’s Friday Favorites. I am loving this series, so let’s get to it.

1. The Happy Planner

Oh, dear heavenly deity – thank you for this beautiful organizational creation. Amen.

This. planner. is. my. life.

Without it I would be unorganized and unproductive. My addiction to office supplies runs deep, ya’ll and I am really particular about what things I use. Which means I try a lot of different things.

I have always been a pen and paper kind of gal. Don’t get me wrong I appreciate technology and all it has to offer – but there’s something about writing something down that just makes it happen. Which is what makes this planner so amazing…

  • I like to draw.
  • I have ginormous handwriting.
  • I like the idea of scrapbooking and visual journaling…but never really stick with it.
  • I really like stickers. (*Note the Pusheen the Cat sticker below)

The Happy Planner lets me pull all of it into one place – which with my hectic days, I need. I can use stickers and washi tapes and make it my own. I cannot stress how much I love that. Being able to decorate and create is one of the reasons I have stuck with this brand of planner for so long.

There’s so much room for activities!


That’s a direct quote from the movie Step Brothers which I also adore, FYI.

I love that there is a note section in the lefthand margin. I also love the fact that It breaks each individual day out by morning, afternoon and evening. It opens it up to let me use it for notes, drawing, or to jot down appointments. I realized that when I would use hour-by-hour planners, I would pack my day to the minute and that got really hectic.

But seriously. Can we just look at one more beautiful photo of this thing?


I really like that in between the months there is a planning section that lets you block for goals, important things, events, etc. and you just have a nice quick month overview.

They are really affordable and come in around $30.00 – which I think is well worth the price you pay.

I could go on and on about this planner and the more I talk about it the more I want to do a future Friday Favorite post dedicated specifically for this planner…which I may do.

Moving onward!

2. Jeffree Star Velour Lipsticks 

Oh my damn.

Have you ever just looked at a lip color and teared up? That’s is what these colors do every single time I look at them. They are SO pigmented. SO velvety going on your lips. JUST. SO…



I love that Jeffree puts out vegan products and has a ridiculously wide range of colors. Once these dry matte, they don’t look chalky or clumpy on your lips like some matte lips can. Also, they hold up to eating a burrito, and we all know you can’t do THAT like a lady. So to be able to eat and still have flawless lips is a win.

He also loves Taco Bell and says things like, “You better WORK GIRL,” on his YouTube channel…so basically I was sold on him from the beginning.

Although I’m just now venturing into the crazy lip color world, the Jeffree Star line has a lot of neutral everyday wear colors. Which, as you can see above – is the majority of what I own.

HOWEVER. I’m a sucker for a good red lipstick. Out of all the colors I own – Rich Blood has to be my go to.


The only sad, sad thing? They are almost always sold out of the one color you want… *cough cough* Gemini *cough cough*

But if you’re patient and follow him on social media, you can catch the release and restock dates of all of his stuff.

Price wise – these are $18.00 per tube, so they are definitely moderately priced, but worth every penny. Like I said before it is SO pigmented that a little bit goes a long way…and did I mention the burrito eating? Because, that.

#3. Mighty Mug Biggie

I am clumsy and I like to drink hot beverages on a regular basis.

One day we were walking through Walmart and I just happened to see this mug on an end cap. It was advertised as ‘spill proof’ and the ‘mug that won’t tip’ or some other fancy-marketing-way of saying “BUY ME NOW, ASHLEY!”

I ended up getting it for Christmas, and

It holds up to its claims!



I said magic about the Staedtler pens last week when they didn’t dry out – so do you see a pattern here? I’m a HUGE Harry Potter fan, so when I find muggle things that work like magic – I’m sold.

  • It’s really nicely insulated. I have put coffee in it first thing in the morning, and it survived a drive to work and two meetings before I came back to it. I made the amateur mistake of thinking my coffee would have cooled and burned my tongue instead.
  • It really is budge proof. So long as it is on a flat surface, that isn’t carpet or some weird texture, it won’t be swayed by an accidental bump or table jolt!
  • Supa-dupa affordable. I had to look up the price point because I received this as a gift. It sells on their website today for $19.99.
  • I also started peeking around and they have a ton of different options to choose from, including sizes and styles. So…I may be shopping is what I’m telling all of you. Transparency is key.

If I can not spill liquid fire on myself or ruin a dress or top by ways other than dribbling coffee down my face, which, lets face it – happens more than I care to admit, I call that a win.

If you love these things let me know! If there is something you want me to try or think could be a Friday Favorite leave a comment down below!


This post is not sponsored. The reviews and photos depicted here are based on personal, not professional, opinion only.